No one will talk about a bad party

Its part of the hooker monologue to say that "I can stop a party if its not going the way I want" but pretty much when pressed to describe what that's like or what to say or do, I didn't get much of an answer. I've noticed eyes kind of glazing over and then moving to the "wide variety" of parties there are... like sort of smoothing the bad moments with a flood of easy, and inconsequential parties. But no one gets into details. On the up side, you can also set your prices higher for stuff that you are less comfortable with -- so intstead of just getting pressured into it by a lover, you get paid a high price for your discomfort. What do we think of financial compensation? Better than nothing or not even close?